Stating the obvious.

D (10:54:14 PM): ok ccan i obsess about boys for a sec

Me (10:54:29 PM): of course

D (10:54:40 PM): the cutie {..} med student finally sent me pics

Me (10:54:45 PM): but if it's about satan, i'm going to smack you upside the head when i see you

D (10:54:56 PM): no no no.... hes crazy

Me (10:55:14 PM): you can say james

D (10:55:32 PM): yes james.... using proper names is a big step for me
D (10:56:02 PM): i kinda like my slightly belittling nicknames

D (10:56:30 PM): but yes James sent me a HUGE email

Me (10:56:30 PM): but if you liiiiiiiike them and they aren't asses in disguise, theeeeeeennnnnnn

D (10:56:40 PM): hes soooooo cute
D (10:57:12 PM): (i sound like a 13 yr old girl)

Me (10:57:20 PM): but it's cute

D (10:57:49 PM): IF he were actually here
D (10:57:58 PM): id be alittle freaked out

Me (10:58:06 PM): ???

D (10:58:30 PM): since I either dont really like the guys that IM seeing or none of them actually have any long term potential
D (10:58:34 PM): and he has both
D (10:58:51 PM): except for the whole other side of the ocean
D (10:58:52 PM): thing
D (10:58:56 PM): thus he too is safe

Me (10:59:36 PM): oooooooooor you could just enjoy what you have and let it enrich your life and NOT OBSESS about what could be/could have been/might have been/will be, etc. etc. and so forth

D (10:59:47 PM): oh yes that too

Me (10:59:48 PM): (I totally just said enrich your life)

D (11:00:12 PM): im all about the life enriching

Me (11:01:19 PM): then....

D (11:03:57 PM): yes must move on and find charming DC boys
D (11:04:08 PM): for further enrichment

Me (11:04:10 PM): do they exist?

D (11:04:42 PM): i really dont think so..